Marriage exists to magnify the worth and greatness of God. Learn more at desiringGod.org. I think that’s like saying, “Poison is inevitable, and I’m just going to get used to taking poison.”. And finally, and this is true for everyone, but especially, Ben, for people with your background. Look at the Book. Daily devotional with John Piper. John Piper Dec 15, 2012 13.5K Shares Article. Interactive Bible study with John Piper. And that leads me to the next part of your path toward hope — namely, that you, perhaps even more than most husbands (though we all need it), will need to talk with her very frankly about what pleases her. I could guess. And she would like it if he wouldn’t do them. His sermons, books, articles, and more are available free of charge at desiringGod.org. His sermons, books, articles, and more are available free of charge at desiringGod.org. MAJESTY OF GOD John Calvin.01821.i03.indd 1 10/22/08 9:23:28 AM. Satisfaction. The answer is that there is hope for a loving, godly, healthy intimacy in marriage — if, in God’s mercy, a cluster of miracles happens in you and in your future wife. This volume collects all twenty-one of John Piper’s biographical sketches, from Augustine and Athanasius to Spurgeon and Lewis. ... Jesus does not hesitate to designate them as thieves, entering God's flock with the intention of stealing, killing, and destroying. Now, that’s a mysterious and wonderful and paradoxical thing to say, right? If we knew more of the sinfulness of our remaining sin, how much sweeter would the song of God’s grace fall on us in Christ? Aug 4, 2016. Jesus Is Precious Because He Gives Eternal Life. Questions and answers with John Piper. John Piper Dec 17, 2015 789 Shares Article. Scripture: John 10:10. Desiring God. John Piper Feb 28, 1982 58 Shares Sermon. Piper is founder and teacher of Desiring God and author of more than fifty books. Apr 9, 1995 . We should embrace unconditional election primarily because it’s true. Look at the Book. Here’s what I mean. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? Or another way to say it would be this: each of you strive to find your greatest sexual pleasure in the greatest sexual pleasure of your spouse. 1 John 2:19. That’s why there should be a lot of talking. The Son of God Appeared to Destroy the Works of the Devil. . Mar 30, 2008. ], for you were bought with a price [namely, the blood of Jesus]. No longer is your body, and its sexual desires, and its engagement with your wife — no longer is it vulgar; it is holy. And what can I do now to ensure it?”. So, Ben, if you are a Christian, your perversely distorted brain belongs to God. We’re on a mission to change that. ASK PASTOR JOHN Daily audio clips of John Piper answering tough theological and pastoral questions. He introduced his idea of “Christian hedonism” and provided a quick explanation of why he believes in it. Happiness. Solid Joys. John Piper Mar 30, 2008 18 Shares Message. Don’t you dare hide this from her, spring it on her after you’re married, and know then that there’s no way out. According to John Piper, the pursuit of pleasure in God is not only permissible, it’s essential.Desiring God is a paradigm-shattering work that dramatically alters common perspectives on relating to God. Every pastor experiences dry seasons. Look at the Book. 1. We embrace, delight in, receive, live in, experience the miracle of being remade in Christ through our faith. Dec 15, 2015. I’m talking about Spirit-given, subconscious transformation of your instincts — what you unthinkingly do — and conscious steps you can take together with this woman that you might fall in love with, based on God’s word for guarding … ?F J;84GBA I have five children. Nine Months in Mary’s Womb Advent Hope for Mothers. (John Piper) Dieu sait ce que vous n’avez pas (Abigail Dodds) L’amour dangereux du confort (Greg Morse) Catégorie de navigation. May 22, 2012. Scripture: John 10:16. Joy. Scripture: John 10:16. Just when a man thinks he can do whatever he pleases sexually with his wife because he’s got that authority, Paul says that she can do whatever she pleases sexually with her husband, which very likely will include informing him that some of the things that please him do not please her — thank you very much. First, humble yourself by admitting that, for the rest of your life, those seven years of poisoning your mind are going to have consequences that you are responsible for and that will require unusual self-abasement in relation to your sexual expectations and your wife. Interactive Bible study with John Piper. Daily devotional with John Piper. In fact, for the follower of Jesus, delight is the duty as Christ is most magnified in His people when they are most satisfied in Him. Words: He may not be a poet, but he can say to her in the moment, “I love you. Scripture: John 10:27. Solid Joys. 3. There have been wonderful victories along the way. Now, Ben, with regard to your history, what this means is that you will not assume that you know best the acts of intimacy that will bring your wife greatest satisfaction. Will we trust and follow him? And the one who indwells you is explicitly called holy. Scripture: John 10:16. Jesus Knows His Sheep. Solid Joys. Just open the app, push play, and enjoy. Apr 11, 1993 . Articles Sermons Topics Books Podcasts Filter Resources By Ask Pastor John. Oct 27, 2012. You are not your own [what a powerful statement! He is a Calvinist Baptist preacher and author who served as Pastor for Preaching and Vision of Bethlehem Baptist Church in Minneapolis, Minnesota for 33 years. Piper reveals that there really is no need to choose between duty and delight in the Christian life. . Scripture: 1 John 2:19. And you will admit to her that you probably do not have the best instincts and inclinations when it comes to the most healthy ways of sexual intimacy in marriage. Daily devotional with John Piper. Scripture: John 1:14. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. John Piper Aug 13, 2011 168 Shares Sermon. He is emphasizing we have a Father. She will need to know all about this ahead of time so that she can decide if she’s going to take a risk on you. Interactive Bible study with John Piper. John Piper 9K Shares Solid Joys Devotional. Look at the Book. John Piper Oct 27, 2012 4K Shares Article. Interactive Bible study with John Piper. He knew what he was buying. He bought you. The answer is that there is hope for a loving, godly, healthy intimacy in marriage — if, in God’s mercy, a cluster of miracles happens in you and in your future wife. They give us doctrines to confess, pray, and sing. He is always working more good than we can ever see. The Vain Boast of Unbelief . I cherish you.” He can say that. Apr 24, 2013. Scripture: John 10:10. And this Father is better than any earthly father. God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in him. Piper is founder and teacher of desiringGod.org and author of more than 50 books. John Piper: “It is a glorious thing to see that the sovereign God ch... ose me, predestined me, purchased me, raised me from spiritual death and helplessness, gave me faith and adopted me, forgave me for all my sins, justified me, gave me his Holy Spirit.” Subscribe to Desiring God: https://dsr.gd/3fSOLEk See … Piper’s sermons, books, articles, and more are available free of charge at desiringGod.org. John 10:10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. Jesus must mean that God’s knowing is accompanied by his desiring to meet our need. Look as deeply into your spouse’s eyes as you can, down into the very soul, and say with your eyes, “You, you only, you only and forever — you.”. Can a True Christian Fall Away from God? Words matter. Flee from sexual immorality. Questions and answers with John Piper. We embrace, delight in, receive, live in, experience the miracle of being remade in Christ through our faith. You are precious to me. And that is your calling: be holy, because you are bought to be holy and indwelt by the Holy One. Solid Joys. Piper reveals that there really is no need to choose between duty and delight in the Christian life. In fact, all of us should assume that. Vous trouverez plus de contenu similaire à www.reveniralevangile.com Peter tells us that a husband’s prayers are hindered if he dishonors his wife. What we need most in seemingly dark and gloomy times isn’t just a solution to our problems, but a fresh sight of God in his unmistakable majesty. And from your talk, you will learn a kind of unspoken language, a kind of delicate signaling, so that there emerges over time a natural rhythm of intimacy that both of you find sweetly and deeply satisfying. The best confessions lay a feast not only for the mind, but for the heart. Articles Sermons Topics Books Podcasts Filter Resources By Ask Pastor John. Look at the Book. The body is the dwelling place of the Holy Spirit. And if there is any woman listening to this who is considering marriage, you should ask a man point-blank about the last time he looked at anything pornographic. Most people in the world have no experience of lasting joy in their lives. Questions and answers with John Piper. Look at the Book. Questions and answers with John Piper. . God’s all-pervasive providence is the key that unlocks enduring patience. God Lived Among Us John 1:14, Part 1. A daily digest of Desiring God resources. Now come these astonishing words in 1 Corinthians 7:3–4: The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights [that is, he should give her sexual satisfaction], and likewise the wife to her husband [his conjugal rights]. If physical enjoying and personal cherishing are united, it will be crystal clear when and how the husband is enjoying her body. First, right now I don’t know where any of my children are. Scripture: John 1:14. Solid Joys. In God’s wisdom and mercy, those dry seasons often become gardens of surprising growth. John Piper: “When we look at everything through the lens of God’s pr... ovidence, everything is significant. But we should also embrace it because it’s precious. Five Reasons to Embrace Unconditional Election. The pursuit of pleasure in God is not only permissible; it’s essential. I and the Father Are One. Eleventh-hour Breakthroughs John Piper 10.6K Shares Sermon of the Day. Ce podcast vous est offert par Revenir à l’Évangile, un blog et ministère de Publications Chrétiennes. Scripture: John 10:22–30. John Piper Aug 4, 2016 1.7K Shares Sermon. John Piper Apr 24, 2013 139 Shares Article. That would be very disingenuous, dishonest, evil of you to do that. Like, “I’m going to beat you.” “No, I want to beat you.” “I’m going to show that I honor you more.” “No, I’m going to show that I honor you more.” Which in the marriage bed means this: outdo one another in seeking to maximize each other’s pleasure — each other’s pleasure. For 33 years, he served as pastor of Bethlehem Baptist Church, Minneapolis, Minnesota. I Have Authority to Lay It Down and I Have Authority to Take It Up Again Easter Sunday. A Godward Life Pierced by the Word Seeing and Savoring Jesus Christ The Legacy of Sovereign Joy The Hidden Smile of God The Roots of Endurance … Now you can see how paradoxical this is. Eye contact: Don’t either of you give the impression that, as you move toward the height of delight, you lose personal contact and float into some dream world abstracted from the person in your arms. Scripture: John 10:25–26. Dec 23, 1984. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. That’s the law he lays down. Dec 17, 2015. Most people in the world have no experience of lasting joy in their lives. Feb 28, 1982. Interactive Bible study with John Piper. Open your eyes. So, what’s the difference between your wife being enjoyed by you and being used by you? So glorify God in your body. And then the two of you, in marriage over time, if she’s moved forward with you, will learn to talk; you’ll learn how to talk. (Kaitlin Miller) Est-il vrai que « ce que je confesse, je le possède » ? … Featured. John Piper: “True worship is ruined, reduced, gutted, flattened, when the majesty of God, especially seen in his all-embracing providence, is replaced with a focus on me and my world.” Subscribe to Desiring God: https://dsr.gd/3fSOLEk Daily devotional with John Piper. John Stephen Piper (né le 11 janvier 1946 à Chattanooga dans le Tennessee) est un pasteur baptiste, un auteur, et un théologien.Il a servi comme pasteur principal à l'église baptiste Bethlehem de Minneapolis, affiliée à Converge, pendant trente-trois ans. Solid Joys. So, set your face, Ben, in these next years to pursue holiness and purity and deep transformation, and there will be hope for you. Through all the communication and experimentation, build that beautiful garden of pleasure with a hedge around it made out of her glad desires and permissions. Article. John Stephen Piper (born January 11, 1946) is a theologian and pastor who is the founder and senior teacher of desiringGod.org, and chancellor of Bethlehem College & Seminary in Minneapolis, Minnesota. If we are going to understand anything, at the most important level, we start with this reality: God created the world, holds it in existence, and governs all of it for his purposes. FEATURES * Listen * Search * Share * Ask - via email to AskPastorJohn@desiringGod.org ABOUT DESIRING GOD God is most glorified in us, when we are most satisfied in him — desiringGod.org exists to help people everywhere understand and embrace this truth. Interactive Bible study with John Piper. The Transfiguration gives us a profound peek into a father’s love for his son. Sep 2, 2009. Possible with God. All of our resources exist to guide you toward everlasting joy in Jesus Christ. God’s design for sex must be a lot different than what I’ve seen. Here’s my suggested path toward hope, Ben. It was my primary battle for the next seven years. In other words, whether we articulate it this way or not, we need to see the world through the lens of the providence of God. Dec 5, 2016. Nothing is random, nothing is pointless, nothing is meaningless.” Subscribe to … Subscribe. Sexual relations in marriage are not vulgar; they are pure in Christ. That’s not going to do. John Piper has done an excellent job of bringing the whole of scripture together to show how the delight of praise and worship in all of our activities is the highest purpose of man. The introduction to John Piper’s “Desiring God: Meditations of a Christian Hedonist” laid out a nice preview of where he would be going in the book, and left me interested. I think it would be fair to say that every mature, healthy woman in marriage wants to enjoy her husband and wants to be enjoyed by her husband, but not used by him. But I also know these videos are unrealistic and perverse. Today we field a question from a listener named Ben. Combattre le péché comme un vainqueur, pas comme une victime (John Piper) John Piper Jan 28, 2021. “Pastor John, thank you for this podcast. John Piper Dec 15, 2012 13.5K Shares Sermon. Beginning as a 10-year-old, I became addicted to porn videos. Is there any hope that I will experience loving, godly, healthy intimacy in marriage? The Depth of Christ's Love: Its Lavish Benefits Palm Sunday. This is very much like Paul’s command in Romans 12:10, “Outdo one another in showing honor.” How do you do that? Solid Joys is a daily devotional written and read by long-time pastor and author John Piper. One of my concerns in even addressing Ben’s question or talking to him directly in this way is that I can’t tell from his question whether he has gotten victory over this or not, because he says, “There have been wonderful victories along the way.” That doesn’t sound like (and maybe he just didn’t choose his words carefully) the pornographic videos are behind him, but that he keeps returning to them, perhaps with less frequency. John Piper is founder and teacher of desiringGod.org; he is author of more than 50 books and travels regularly to preach and teach. As John Piper says, That is where ultimate meaning is found. And he is speaking specifically about sexual intercourse, in those marriage-bed moments of intimacy. We’re on a mission to change that. He bought you so that he could indwell you. Ask Pastor John. You must pursue these miracles. He is author of. I love to meet their needs. Scripture: John 10:11–18. When a man marries a woman, they become one, God says. And Paul says that, knowing he is going to give instructions one sentence later in 1 Corinthians 7:3 on how a man and his wife should have sex. You will assume that your mind is distorted. John Piper Apr 9, 1995 60 Shares Sermon. Without our consent, without our approval, without our say, God decided to save his own. John Piper’s top 365 sermons and messages—one for each day of the year. For a generation now, John Piper has been provoking Christians with the simple but paradigm-shattering truth that God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in him. In other words, it’s pretty obvious to a woman when he’s enjoying her body. So, here are three things that contribute to this beautiful sense of not being used, but being enjoyed by both the cherishing of a person and the enjoying of a body. Therefore, you will be especially humble, especially hesitant to put your immediate desires forward as a guideline for what happens in the marriage bed. All of our resources exist to guide you toward everlasting joy in Jesus Christ. I want no other. Articles Sermons Topics Books Podcasts Filter Resources By Ask Pastor John. My eyes and my hands go after no other with the desire to do what we are doing now. Daily devotional with John Piper. Other Sheep I Have. He bought you, body and soul, by his blood. Desiring God is a paradigm-shattering work that dramatically alters common perspectives on relating to God. It may not be as obvious to her that he is cherishing her person. A woman will feel properly enjoyed by her husband, rather than used, if she can tell that he is delighting in her body and her person as one. I Have Other Sheep That Are Not of This Fold. Pasteur John Piper vous répond présente les réponses que le pasteur John Piper donne à des questions théologiques et pastorales difficiles. This book makes the Christian activity of praise more than just singing songs, but actually purposefully connecting the pieces of our lives in one great pursuit of happiness in God. Aug 13, 2011. Scripture: John 6:51, John 1:14. New messages are posted to this podcast as they become available. Questions and answers with John Piper. And you should insist on victory, never to look at pornography — not simply infrequent exposure. See more ideas about john piper, calvinist, john piper quotes. He can say that. But it needs to be made clear that in this enjoyment he is cherishing her person. 2. Glory Full of Grace and Truth John 1:14, Part 2 . What advice do you have for me? This will not be automatic just because you’re a Christian. You are not your own. This is why I said miracles will have to happen in your heart and her heart. John Piper Apr 11, 1993 62 Shares Sermon. God’s Providence in 2020 We know that God is … The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 6:18–20. Jul 18, 2018 - John Stephen Piper (born January 11, 1946) is founder and teacher of desiringgod.org and chancellor of Bethlehem College & Seminary in Minneapolis, Minnesota. Scripture: John 10:11–18. Questions and answers with John Piper. These short but substantive readings aim to feed your joy in Jesus every day of the year. Ask Pastor John. Many couples struggle because they think and live as if they are still two. And let me mention one absolutely crucial feature of this satisfying intimacy. Too many people today think that pornography is just inevitable; it’s a given, and marriages should just cope, just adapt to it. Scripture: 1 John 3:1. Scripture: 1 John 3:1–10. But what I have seen is the only model I know. John Piper is founder and teacher of desiringGod.org and chancellor of Bethlehem College & Seminary. As I look forward to marriage, I fear that what I watched has already patterned my expectations. But my knowing falls short of God’s knowing in at least three ways. 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